Writing a Distinguished Matrimonial Profile
Writing a Distinguished Matrimonial Profile
1 August, 2020
Swaran Kaur
Success in finding a compatible life partner in matrimony is very much dependent upon how well
your profile is written and how well you present yourself.
First Impression
Giving a memorable first impression will attract others to your profile. Prospects for contact are
good if others can find something attractive or appealing in your profile. An unexciting profile is
quickly overlooked.
Expression of Personality
It is extremely important to express your personality.
Write your profile in an interesting manner, distinguish yourself and express your personality as
much as possible. It is the descriptive part of your profile which will attract others to your profile
much more than the fixed choice questions and so use this to your advantage.
Briefly talk about what is important to you, your goals in life in a realistic manner, hobbies and
interests to give others a sense of who you truly are.
Introduce your personal qualities as strengths as this will ensure that you are remembered. This,
together with your profile picture, are the main motivation for a potential
matrimonial
partner to contact you.
Profile Photograph
A profile photograph is a must.
A profile without a photograph makes it difficult for others to connect with you and therefore the
probability of your profile being ignored or overlooked is high.
Your main profile photograph needs to show your face in the best light. Make sure it stands out and
that it shows the characteristics of your personality. Your photograph should communicate who you
are and your interests in life.
Others form an idea of your personality by looking at your photograph such as how you have posed,
your facial expression, the clothes you are wearing etc. They can then make an informed decision as
to whether or not to make contact with you.
A really great profile photograph can help to enhance your unique qualities and attract like-minded
potential matrimonial life partners. Surveys have shown that an attractive profile photo is the
strongest determinant of whether your profile is appealing to others.
Selfies and group profile photographs are not a good idea. They do not show your best
characteristics or bring your personality to life.
Honesty & Humility
Be honest about yourself. Your profile is critical for the future success of your relationship. Be sure it
truly reflects the best of who you are, and, it provides the correct impression to potential partners.
Generally people prefer humility in others and so bragging is not a good idea.
Your profile is there to help others find out who you genuinely are and to enable them to build trust
with you and to respect you.
Talk About Your Partner Preference
Also, briefly write a few guidelines about the right type of person for you. This will help others decide
whether they would be the right person for you. Be absolutely honest about the type of partner in
matrimony you would prefer and with whom you would like to spend the rest of your life.
Check for Errors
Finally, make sure that the spellings and the grammar is correct. Make sure that your profile
represents you, your standards, your values and the truth.
The more time and energy you invest in making your profile interesting and truly representative of
who you are, the better the response you will receive from others.